Inna lilliahi wa’inna ilaihirraji’oun – What it really means
We say this statement when someone dies. Also some of us may say this sentence when they lose something, suffer a setback or harm. But do you know what it means?
Sure, everyone knows the obvious, that it means: 'To Allah we belong and to Him is our return.' But that's not what I am talking about.
What I mean is, do you really, truly understand these words and their implications in a Muslim's life? It means “whatever we have is not really ours. It belongs to Allah.”
Take a look around you; everything you see, all that you have and all that there is, in you, on you, around you, belongs to Allah alone.
It is Allah Who has given you all the property and goods you possess, and that He is the true Owner of them all. So are the cars that you own, the houses that you live in, the businesses you possess; all truly belong to Allah.
The kids that He blesses you with, the health that He gives you, the time that He has allowed you are all Allah's property. Even the bodies we live in and the life that we have belong to Allah alone.
"And to Allah belongs the inheritance of the heavens and the earth…." (Surah Aal-Imraan:180)
"The kingdom of the heavens and the earth and everything in them belongs to Allah. He has power over all things." ( Surat al-Ma'ida: 120)
'Say: 'To Allah belongs the East and the West…' (Surah al-Baqarah:142)
Now, since everything belongs to Allah, then we have to include even our souls in that list. The very souls that we think of as our "self"; our "nafs"; our "being" - whatever you want to call it - that very thing that distinguishes you from the rest of the world. It belongs to Allaah.
It's not YOURS. In fact, YOU are not YOURS. You belong to Allah. And this is the essence of the concept of slavery to Allah in Islam.
And since He is the true Possessor of everything, and everything is His property, He allots what He wills to whomever He wills, and then He takes it away. After all, it is HIS to begin with.
So He may give you something and then take it back after a while.. He will bless you with a precious child that you love dearly, and then He may take it away.
He will grant you money, honour and status, and then He may take them all away. He will give you youth, vitality and health and then surely He will take them away.
In fact everything you have will only be with you for a very short while. And then the Owner will claim His Right. So when Allah does reclaim what was rightfully His, why mourn our losses?
Just like a friend who lends you his book. And then after a few days, he wants it back and you give it back to him; no regrets, no sorrow, no questions asked.
Similarly, if Allah takes back some of His blessings upon you for some reason, so be it. Say Alhamdulillaah. Don't grieve. Be patient. Submit to the will of Allah, be pleased with His decision for you, for surely He will only do what is best for you.
Just think; the Owner came and took it back. Remember that you're not the real owner. You were NEVER the real owner to begin with.
You only had everything because it was Allah who gave it to you in the first place. If He didn't give it to you, you wouldn't have had it anyway. In fact, you couldn't have had it.
Remember, Man enters this world empty handed, and leaves it empty handed. Remember, everything we have, all the blessings we enjoy, are gifts from Almighty Allah, gifts that we enjoy for a limited period until He takes them away whenever He deems fit.
They are a trust from Allah, a loan to you, to see how you respond to these gifts and how you use them, in the obedience of the Almighty, thanking Him and worshipping Him, OR in the disobedience to the One who gave them to you in the first place.
Take note of the words of the Prophet Muhammad (saw) on the occasion of the death of his son, Ibrahim: 'Our eyes are filled with tears, our hearts with grief, but we say nothing with our lips except that which pleases Allah. Verily, to Allah we belong, and to Him we return.' (Bukhaari).
And we all know the famous incidence about the companion Abu Talha and his wife when one of their sons died and Abu Talha was not at home. She washed and shrouded him and when Abu Talha returned and asked about his son, she said, 'The child is quiet and I hope he is in peace….' (Bukhaari).
Subhaanallah, such patience! And such Imaan in the statement "Inna lillaahi wainna ilaihirraji'oun"! She truly understood its meaning and its effect on her life as a Muslimah, submitting to Him and being pleased with whatever He has decreed for her.
She knew that whatever she has is not hers. Rather, it is Allah's and He takes back whatever He owns at its appointed time. Because their Imaan was so strong the Prophet Muhammad (saw) made dua for them and Allah blessed them immensely.
"They (i.e. Abu Talha and his wife) had nine sons and all of them became reciters of the Quran (by heart)." (Bukhaari)
"Be sure we will test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives, but give glad tidings to those who are steadfast, who say when afflicted with calamity: 'To Allah we belong and to him is our return. They are those on who (descend) blessings from Allah and mercy and they are the once that receive guidance." (al-Baqarah: 155)
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said "Pass on knowledge from me even if it is only one verse."
REMEMBER: WE AREN'T OURS.
[This tazkirah is quoted from somewhere, I think from one of the many e-mails that I received. Can't recall for sure, though].