Sunday, June 26, 2011
Snickerdoodles Doo...!
Thanks for the Memories ..
Friday, June 24, 2011
It's Been Ten Years Since ..
Any of you out there who have ever embarked on a second marriage following the collapse of the first, for whatever reason, would understand perfectly where I am coming from.
The exes, the kids from both sides of the divide, the in-laws (and 'out-laws' too), the mutual friends (some taking sides, some valiantly trying to maintain the status quo); that's the kind of excess baggage (and I mean this in a positive way) we drag along into our second.
I still remember the biting words of someone close (a family member, in fact) who rudely dissed our union, then in its first year, with a dismissive "... alah, don't even know if this will last five years..."
Well, it has been a decade since and we are still here, alive and kicking, the going still great. No thanks for the withering vote of no confidence, though.
As a woman, when you remarry at 47 you know darn well the direction you are taking. At least I did. You didn't marry for lust; you marry for companionship.
I had interesting monologues with God long before meeting Pak Abu. Truth be told, remarrying wasn't on the cards at all; I had no intention of giving my growing daughters a stepfather.
But I did ask Him, if there was jodoh for me yet, to bless me with a companion who could guide me into becoming a better Muslimah because I had been a lousy Muslim for the longest time.
Although I was tired of being one, starting over was tough. It wasn't easy to wean yourself off 'la dolce vita' (the good life) even if you knew it was for a better one.
This was because duniawi was real, something I could relate to, as opposed to the hazy notions of akhirat, qiamah, syurga and neraka; such was syaitan's hold on me.
I had no doubt that Allah swt listened, for, here I am, where I want to be. And I guess I can speak for Pak Abu too because we share the same goal.
We have to continue working on this second chance that we have been given, to make it work and last, till death do us part. Insyaallah.
We ended up sitting on barstools at a high table; it was uncomfortable, to say the least. Fortunately, before the main course arrived we were moved to proper seating.
Whatever the condition, the restaurant remains in our good books; the food was excellent and the service topnotch, as usual.
We kept coming back because of their seafood zuppe; it's rich and absolutely delicious.
Last night's sampling included fried calamari with tartar dip, sauteed mushrooms, gnocci & peeled prawns, and the usual garlic bread.
For dessert we decided to try their napoleotani creme brule; it came in three little dishes of vanilla, chocolate and strawberry, respectively. I'd definitely order it again.
We noticed business had improved much after they renovated last year. It used to be so-so and we had liked the laidback atmosphere then. Now everything seemed so hurried.
Pak Abu said we should consider another place next year, just for a change. Perhaps...
Thursday, June 23, 2011
'Sam' without the 'Prit'.....
There are teacups of four varying patterns and sizes in my kitchen (pixs above). Which one to use? Decisions, decisions...
After mulling over it, I decided to go with the blue & white 'solo' member, used mainly for drinking Chinese tea and green tea.
Monday, June 20, 2011
The Inheritance
Fat, Fat, Go Away...
There's Honey Souffle, Honey and Almond Cake, Honey Fudge, Honey Cookies and Mead. I think I'll start with Honey Cookies, the simplest. How la to lose weight like this....
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Stereotyped, again...
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Teatime Treat


Among our favourite desserts is that old English teatime treat, bread & butter pudding.
My late grandmother used to bake this when I was a child but I can't recall having it as a teen. Perhaps she just stopped making it in favour of local kuih-muih.
As a young bride abroad, I would make it occasionally, especially when friends came a-visiting. As it were, I wasn't much of a kitchen person, so this sort of slapdash dish, quick and easy to make, was right up my alley.
The Royal Lake Club once served the most delicious bread & butter pudding I had ever tasted (story here). Then the Club changed caterers, and the overall food standard declined.
Adding insult to injury, the Royal Lake Club's now insipid offering paled in comparison to the one served atop KL Tower. Since then we have not found a worthy competitor.
With bread & butter pudding on my mind the past couple of days, it wasn't much of a surprise that I woke up this morning with the urge to bake one.
The end result: the family gave their thumbs-up, and I'm pleased as Punch. So here goes:
Ingredients
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/4 cup sugar
4 tablespoons butter or margarine, more or less as needed, at room temperature
5 slices crust-on white bread
1/2 cup golden raisins or sultanas
2 cups milk
2 eggs
Custard sauce
2 tablespoons custard powder (Bird's my choice) mixed with 2 tablespoons fresh milk to make a paste. Warm 200ml fresh milk in a pan, add 2 tablespoonfuls of sugar. Add paste and mix to desired consistency.
Saturday, June 11, 2011
Rene's Engaged..
Bride-to-be Masyarene with friends after the engagement ceremony.
Ali's Angels... unlike the real thing, we are no matchsticks (with the exception of the one in the middle, who has no meat to boast of. Izah, don't kill me, ok!) From left: Ayahcik Ali, his son (and our cousin) Sazali, my sisters Zaridah and Hanizah, and yours truly.
Pak Abu kekenyangan lepas berkenduri nasi minyak.
From left: My cousins Jefri and Sazali, my nephews Atari and Aizuddin (Zack), and my grandnephew Qadri (Zack's son).
Hantaran goes traditional - I have forgotten what this agar-agar sweetmeat is called.
Mini cakes, today's hantaran trend. We cut the cake upon getting home; it's a sinfully rich chocolate cake covered with thick icing. I got migraine just by looking at it..Masyarene is the third daughter of my sister Zahana and her husband Mohd Som (whom we call Atan). The elder two are married, with a child each, and now it's Rene's turn.
Barring unforseen circumstances, Rene and her beau Syed Atief will wed in March next year, Insyaallah.
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Down, Down and Away We Go..
"Hey, look who has begun to shed the pounds!"... hehehehThe Royal Lake Club (RLC) continued its relentless slide in the Inter-club Karaoke competition by slipping into third place in last night's final held at Kelab Golf Negara Subang (KGNS).
Monday, May 30, 2011
Hello! ... and Goodbye!
All my life I had never read a single copy of celebrity magazine Hello!, let alone buy one. This in itself is ironic, considering I spent the last five years of my journalistic career covering the entertainment beat for an English daily.
To be fair, Hello! wasn't the only one I kept at arm's length. Apart from a few local staple which I had to peruse in the line of duty, the rest were consigned to my 'Not Interested' bin.
The world of artistes and entertainers, all those glitz and glamour (not to mention the constant bitchings), had never been my cup of tea. In fact, as I write this, I can still feel the retractable claws of some whose path I had crossed (intentionally or otherwise).
People well acquainted with me over the years would know that I have an intense dislike for attention. That I had to deal with people who lived and breathed adulation and the spotlight was a nightmare unto itself.
Which was why I surprised myself today when I picked up a copy of the latest Hello! from a newsstand on my way out of Tesco this morning, after my weekly shopping for provisions.
Truth be told, it was the cover that did it - a lovely picture of the world's most famous newlyweds, Prince Williams and Kate Middleton, now Duchess of Cambridge, and a blurb that says "Collectors' Item" (or something to that effect, I can't recall exactly).
I'm a shoo-in for anything remotely resembling collectibles. In fact, the house is chock-a-block with junk masquerading as collectors' items (and I'm not in a hurry to spring-clean just yet).
Be that as it may, I gladly parted with RM8.90 for a copy of the latest Hello! special edition, flipping the RM1.10 change into a nearby receptacle in aid of a charity.
It was when I was unloading my bags of provisions from the car that I realised the magazine was nowhere to be found. Now, where the heck could it be? RM8.90 is a lot of money!
As I sat there in the driver's seat pondering over the missing rag, it dawned on me that I had inadvertently left it in the Tesco trolley whilst transferring the contents to my car.
Since I had no desire to return to Tesco parking lot and try my luck at retrieving it, it's Goodbye! to Hello!
Now, if you happen to be the lucky person who found my first (and definitely last) Hello! (still pristine and virginal, cello-wrapped and all), have fun reading at my expense, literally..
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
The Last Word....
... on Psychiatry: The care of the Id by the odd. (Anon)
.... on Psychiatry: A psychiatrist is a fellow who asks you a lot of expensive questions your wife asks you for nothing. (Joe Adams)
... on Temptation: Whenever I'm caught between two evils, I take the one I've never tried. (Mae West)
...on Atheism: An atheist is a man who has no invisible means of support. (Bishop Fulton Sheen)
... on Life: There are two problems in my life. The political ones are insoluble and the economic ones are incomprehensible. (Alec Douglas Holmes)
... on Age: The best 10 years of a woman's life is between the ages of 29 and 30. (Peter Weiss)
... on Statesmen: A statesman is a politician who has been dead for 10 or 15 years. (Harry S. Truman)
... on Politicians: Since a politician never believes what he says, he is surprised when others believe him. (Charles de Gaulle)
... on People: I love mankind; it's people I can't stand. (Charles M. Schultz)
... on People: Some people are electrifying; they light up a room when they leave. (Anon)
... on Fools: Never argue with a fool. Onlookers may not be able to tell who is which. (Anon)
... on Status: Never keep up with the Joneses. Drag them down to your level; it's cheaper. (Quentin Crisp)
... on History: Those who don't study the past will repeat its errors; those who do will find other ways to err. (Charles Wolf)
... on Excesses: Too much of a good thing can be wonderful. (Mae West)
... on Courage: If you stand up to be counted, someone will take your seat. (James Thurber)
... on Problems: If you keep your head when all about you are losing theirs, you obviously don't understand the problem. (Anon)
... on Diplomats: A diplomat is a person who is appointed to avert situations that would never occur if there were no diplomats. (Oscar Wilde)
... on Diplomacy: A diplomat is a man who thinks twice before he says nothing. (Gerald Lieberman)
...on Vanity: The chief excitement in a woman's life is spotting a woman who is fatter than she is. (James Thurber)
...on Company: In our society, a man is known by the company he owns. (Gerald Lieberman)
... on Wisdom: Many wise words are spoken in jest, but they don't compare with the number of foolish words spoken in earnest. (Anon)
... on Ingratitude: If you pick a starving dog and make his prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a man and a dog. (Mark Twain)
... on Pleasure: There is no pleasure in having nothing to do; the fun is in having lots to do and not doing it. (Mary Little)
... on Women's Lib: I wanted to be the first woman to burn my bra, but it would have taken the fire department four days to put it out. (Dolly Parton)
...on Conscience: God may forgive your sins, but your nervous system won't. (Anon)
... on Exercises: I love long walks, especially if they are taken by people who annoy me. (Fred Allen)
... on Romance: I don't believe in puppy love; it always ends up in dog-fights. (Farah A.R)
...on Stinginess: Misers aren't fun to live with, but they make wonderful ancestors. (David Brenner)
... on Drugs: A drug is a substance which, when injected into a rat, will produce a scientific report. (Anon)
... on Grief: it is foolish to tear one's hair in grief; as though sorrow could be made less with baldness. (Cicero)
...on Man: Man, in his anxiety to refute evidence that he is a monkey, manages to further the belief that he is an ass. (Gerald Lieberman)
