tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post4152107595490397754..comments2023-11-05T16:14:07.974+08:00Comments on kata kama: When Kama RamblesKama At-Tarawishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-66272103601709195832010-04-10T14:40:55.091+08:002010-04-10T14:40:55.091+08:00Dear Adik Kama,
How are you two, me duck? Sent yo...Dear Adik Kama,<br /><br />How are you two, me duck? Sent you two messages direct via Google and New Message - but both were rejected. Must be me, boo hoo!<br /><br />And what's this missive or mischief that you've got up your sleeve? We are old you know, cannot take too many shocks. BUT we're not quite 30 in our marriage - so there's still hope.<br /><br />This here is our e-mail address. Can you please not publish it? Again it's because we're too old to cope with modern communication.<br />Iain actually prefers stamps and envelopes.<br />Our address mazhb44@gmail.comanak si-hamidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01936071509364600235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-59202571576370275742010-04-10T11:11:49.736+08:002010-04-10T11:11:49.736+08:00Thanks! She is cute and so are her four other sist...Thanks! She is cute and so are her four other sisters. When I take them out - people tell me what beautiful girls I have ... and then stare at me long and hard.<br /><br />Alas, it comes from their dads. <br /><br />Divorce is a life-changing experience, some never recover. But I say - ada hikmahnya...and I thank God it worked out for me.<br /><br />I will definitely drop by more often!ninothttp://ninotazizpurplemusings.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-82243845300792632352010-04-10T00:08:15.563+08:002010-04-10T00:08:15.563+08:00con't..
ah, golfing together. i tried but cou...con't..<br /><br />ah, golfing together. i tried but couldnt handle the heat. foreign language? good if you have the inclination, but for us the language of love suffices.. hehehe..<br /><br />btw, tq for dropping by. [you've got a pretty lil girl..cutenya!]Kama At-Tarawishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-90849615315750734362010-04-10T00:05:38.163+08:002010-04-10T00:05:38.163+08:00ninot - sometimes common sense is all we need to g...ninot - sometimes common sense is all we need to get back on track. and i subscribe to the old-fashioned notion of turning to faith in times of trouble. after having gone through a marital breakup, i wouldnt wish it on my enemy. it's too painful...Kama At-Tarawishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-87941301689959014352010-04-09T21:16:59.564+08:002010-04-09T21:16:59.564+08:00With couples more at liberty to walk away without ...With couples more at liberty to walk away without the deafening stigma that comes with divorce, it is accepted that marriages today need more work than ever. Acceptance, more than tolerance, of each other's quirks and territories in exchange for pockets of happy existence. Kind of like a marriage work out.<br /><br />Hubby, 11 years younger, trains hard to take his place as head of family with 5 daughters. I step back to release control. Well, the blissful days are worth it.<br /><br />Thanks again for the huge dose of common sense.<br /><br />I am told golfing together is good idea? And foreign language?ninotazizhttp://ninotazizpurplemusings.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-53414809298334515292010-04-09T07:43:48.987+08:002010-04-09T07:43:48.987+08:00D - hehehe, I like that statement "biting eac...D - hehehe, I like that statement "biting each other dengan mesranya.." a little squabble is allowed every now and then, it's a way of releasing marital tension. kalau jadi pak (or mak) angguk aja pun boring gak..<br /><br />GJ - I cant agree with you more. That's why sometimes I feel guilty for sweating the small stuffs.. my being a neat freak has a lot to do with this unfortunately..<br /><br />Din - i'm staying away from sopo blogging (only indulge in sopo commenting..) because there are a lot of good & knowledgeable sopo bloggers out there.. tokleh celeng..Kama At-Tarawishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-28845673264066121762010-04-08T08:10:04.818+08:002010-04-08T08:10:04.818+08:00uh-oh.... silap masuk..... i'd rather stick to...uh-oh.... silap masuk..... i'd rather stick to sopo issues than talking about married life !<br /><br />typical man..... :)<br /><br />salam kak.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-13395125166771709372010-04-08T02:24:35.148+08:002010-04-08T02:24:35.148+08:00I stick to the rule of thumb that if I found one t...I stick to the rule of thumb that if I found one thing I don't like about my partner, my partner probably has five things she doesn't like about me, and yet she chooses to ignore them, because because because... This rule of thumb also seems to work well on friendship and other relationships.Gurindam Jiwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07708897376133975191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-80990761073052144402010-04-08T00:03:10.052+08:002010-04-08T00:03:10.052+08:00my late hubby and I were opposites who were well s...my late hubby and I were opposites who were well suited, I'd say... When I started to bebel, he stayed quiet and calm. He tidied the room when I threw my sarong or T-shirt around nonchalantly. :) Cukuplah tu.<br /><br />Let me now sit back and watch other couples biting each other dgn mesranya.<br /><br />Take care, Kak Puteri!Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14795418734351789801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-20817735990911105492010-04-07T23:34:06.367+08:002010-04-07T23:34:06.367+08:00Pakmat - had it not been for the the big D, i woul...Pakmat - had it not been for the the big D, i would have been wed to the same man for 36 years now. 13 years of marriage followed by 13 years of single-momhood had taught me many things. I learned to be strong and independent. <br />You have a colourful life yourself, Pak... heheheKama At-Tarawishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-4986242581348563992010-04-07T21:52:17.280+08:002010-04-07T21:52:17.280+08:00..I thought your earlier ramble was something else.....I thought your earlier ramble was something else..:)been married 10 years, hey?..hmm..I was married to my first for 15 years, my second 22 years and still counting, and my third 5 years..but the years count for nothing..whichever way you looked at it, marriage is still a gamble..but then, I had always been an erring husband..:) <br /><br />p.s. in polygamy, the silent treatment is a welcome relief..:) cheers..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18068291687504013148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-27404393245059091392010-04-07T21:12:32.725+08:002010-04-07T21:12:32.725+08:00Deli - itulah hikmah tua.. 'blood go upstairs&...Deli - itulah hikmah tua.. 'blood go upstairs' selow sikit..hehehe<br /><br />DR - ooo, itu petirdan kilat sabung menyabung tarak baguss.... nanti itu Jannah tarak cium punya.. heheheKama At-Tarawishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-55320276819393937552010-04-07T16:15:53.146+08:002010-04-07T16:15:53.146+08:00Kak,
Tq for such a worthy advice, akan saya junju...Kak,<br /><br />Tq for such a worthy advice, akan saya junjung di atas batu jemala patik...(esp kpd saya yg selalu bermulut petir kpd somi..ampun Kanda)Desert Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11176742019941539988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-1526950401248614782010-04-07T15:21:46.063+08:002010-04-07T15:21:46.063+08:00Salam Kak Puteri,
Thank you counselor. Where do I...Salam Kak Puteri,<br /><br />Thank you counselor. Where do I stand? The giver or the taker - yang asyik menolak atau yang sering beransur? Hmmm... soalan cepumas ni!<br /><br />Mine is only 1/3 of Kak Teh's; a little over a decade. Not bad I'd say. I do thank ALlah for having me met my jodoh later than the usual age for men. Dah tetua ni tak lah darah cepat menyirap (agaknya jantung tak berapa cergas nak mengepam); adalah kesabaran sikit.<br /><br />Now let's see if we can carry this tolerance outside the home... non?_delihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16341177635196813968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-62834034414989708532010-04-06T22:46:22.528+08:002010-04-06T22:46:22.528+08:00kay - i haven't reached the stage of 'bert...kay - i haven't reached the stage of 'bertengkar' through e-mails & text msgs.. verbal sparring pun tak larat nak carry on..lolKama At-Tarawishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-24799805611397382122010-04-06T22:43:03.398+08:002010-04-06T22:43:03.398+08:00Kak Teh - Who says familiarity breeds contempt kan...Kak Teh - Who says familiarity breeds contempt kan, Kak Teh? Just like you, I hate thinking of the day when he's no longer there (kalau Allah swt panjangkan usia kita medlebihinya lah).. <br /><br />Pi - the adage silence is golden holds so true. <br /><br />Anon 10.51 - i know where you're coming from and i sympathise. i feel incomplete without my kids..<br /><br />Wan - 3 decades of marriage is no mean achievement, wan. semoga berpanjangan hingga ke akhir hayat. wah, rewards berganda2 ni bagus, but to get them kena banyak sabar.. hehehe<br /><br />Pat & mekyam - i sooo agree with you both about 'being friends with one's spouse." they may get on your nerves but when they aren't around.. ooboy.. life's just not complete.<br /><br />Mamasita - wb to the comment sphere.. we can hv bruch sunday at you-know-where.. hehe.. i'm cool. ajaklah the rest. the family and I will be leaving for umrah 19/04.<br /><br />Tommy - pak abu definitely agrees with you tommy re 'silent treatment'.. hehehe.. such bliss! <br /><br />Lap - as long as you hv been through the grind, doesnt matter how long the marriage lasted, kira ok la.Kama At-Tarawishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203707782759183847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-82467708613215149352010-04-06T22:40:27.121+08:002010-04-06T22:40:27.121+08:00WE'll be 23 in a few days. Initially the first...WE'll be 23 in a few days. Initially the first 10, was blastfully loud, the next 10 projected lower volume and the last three looks is heading towards "deaf mute". <br /><br />Tak larat dah aihhh nak nak bising-bising. Susah-susah send sms je, and kalu nak cerita longer shoot email. Tapi geram gak bila lambat reply. Harus gak kena call dulu suruh read email..LOL.kay_leedahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02538691439521114684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-62347489074231660382010-04-06T18:49:17.591+08:002010-04-06T18:49:17.591+08:00tumpang lalu puteri,
laptop, soalan 'mana cerm...tumpang lalu puteri,<br />laptop, soalan 'mana cermin mata i' tu adalah antara soalan2 yang tak memerlukan jawapan. Kalau jawab, "Laaa, you letak tang mana?" mulalah akan mencetuskan ,"kalau i tau tak kan i tanya," dsb pada siang-siang hari.<br /><br />Kalau nak sampai ke 30 tahun dan lebih mestilah kenal mana-mana soklan yang tak wajib berjawab atau yang memerlukan bohong sunat atau jawapan sepaling ringkas; macam "you dah makan vitamin hari ni?"Kak Tehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00856864485917633260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-47376615194113131132010-04-06T17:53:41.272+08:002010-04-06T17:53:41.272+08:00Yang married for less than 2 tahun jagung qualifie...Yang married for less than 2 tahun jagung qualified to comment or not?<br />(Depa dah melepasi 30 tahun, ishkkkkk!)<br />No wife must be that extra sensitive to "mana cermin mata I?". Laki tu tak dak nawaitu pun nak disturb your slumber; it just blurted out. Automatic lagi. Kalau jawab balik, "Yang I tadi guna spec tu nak pelekat api, guruih api dah basah!", bukankah lagi meriah jadinya? heheheلف توف™https://www.blogger.com/profile/17190327523660960919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-7046784411116689292010-04-06T16:08:25.514+08:002010-04-06T16:08:25.514+08:00Hi Puteri,
Did it occur to u ladies that men in m...Hi Puteri,<br /><br />Did it occur to u ladies that men in most instances do craves the so call ‘Silent Treatment’ especially during the football season, ahhh so peaceful & the uninterrupted bliss..…hehehe…<br /><br />Oh dear me, mekyam, u cracked me up. Were u thinking about the fart when he takes the meat out of the freezer…oops red faced!<br /><br />TommyTommy Yewfigurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12417405409281770347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-90242750071695392662010-04-06T14:42:32.485+08:002010-04-06T14:42:32.485+08:00Hahaha..I love your entry Puteri..gosh, lama betul...Hahaha..I love your entry Puteri..gosh, lama betul I tak blog hop..hope I didn't miss much!!<br />Betol betol..semua I sokong!<br /><br />You nakgi Umrah bila? Kalau NanaDJ and you ada plan brunch weekend ni, count me in..maybe on Sunday at your 'favourite' restaurant?? hehemamasitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07918597628257831626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-48610039563769696292010-04-06T13:34:55.043+08:002010-04-06T13:34:55.043+08:00i believe pat revealed the magic formula -- *being...i believe <b>pat</b> revealed the magic formula -- <i>*being friends with your spouse!*</i>. :D<br /><br />basically it boils down to... even if you cannot stand his sh*t sometimes, you'd miss even his fart when he's not around. [<i>that's how it is with me.</i> :D]mekyamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12821403905513232293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-55582757708252621512010-04-06T12:45:10.315+08:002010-04-06T12:45:10.315+08:00You make so much sense here, girl. I wish young pe...You make so much sense here, girl. I wish young people would read you and realise how so not easy it is being married. And like you say, marriage takes a lot of work - on both sides - if it is to succeed. <br /><br />We hit our 27th anniversay in July, and I've known this man for close to 30 years. And I still love him, and I know he loves me. And that is a good feeling.<br /><br />And you are right: it has not always been perfect, nor easy - and mainly because like you two, we too are very different: memang chalk and cheese, like you say. <br /><br />But we've made it this far together, and we're still friends. I'm looking forward to growing old(-er!) with him ;)Pathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795820209657289652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-40409995872109002022010-04-06T12:22:00.730+08:002010-04-06T12:22:00.730+08:00Puteri,
Has also gone past 30 year barrier and ha...Puteri, <br />Has also gone past 30 year barrier and has to agree/can testify to every detail of your rambles.<br />On getting on each other's nerve.. I heard/read it somewhere.. married person get 30x reward(pahala) compared with those unmarried, for doing the same deed. <br />Rationally, in order to get that kind of reward, married persons faced equivalent hardship.. Non?Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2548373318997308915.post-60103173324964098522010-04-06T10:51:34.879+08:002010-04-06T10:51:34.879+08:00Puteri, your ramblings touch on a raw nerve. But t...Puteri, your ramblings touch on a raw nerve. But to be honest I am most happy when we are together as family if one is missing for a short while, we felt incomplete esp. Abah/Umi.Keep on ramblings I enjoyed reading them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com